How to Choose the Right Pet for You

When I was a child my cat growing up was the world's most tolerant and loving cat. I was always wanting him to play with cat toys, flinging him around like a ragdoll when we ran around the house, but he put with it with grace and love, This was a cat who adored being pet and being fed.

When owning a pet, finding one with the right temperament can be tricky. When you buy or adopt a kitten, you do not know what their personality will be like. Even older cats can be unpredictable. If you put your pet up for adoption because it is not the right fit for your home, remember that shelters have limited capacity to house cats and they can be put down.

My male tom cat (or the domestic short hair moggy), is very sweet and affectionate. When I found him at the shelter he was very loving and outgoing. However, as soon as he adapted to his new home, he developed other less desirable qualities such as jumping on people as they walked by and using his claws and teeth when playing. Of course, this did not change his nature, he remained sweet and loving, but this rough play would be a challenge with small children if a family were to adopt him. I definitely have a few scratches and bite marks from his sense of fun.

Our male tom was also a selective lap cat as it turned out. Many cats are independent and will seek out attention as they deign, rather than when you would like it. Dogs can be much more accomodating than cats when it comes to being cuddled on demand.

So, when I went out seeking another cat, I know it was more for an affectionate feline companion for myself rather than for companionship for the male (although, it was the intention that with us being out all day the cats would have each other for attention). I was fortunate enough that the family I spoke to were quite happy for us to do a trial to make sure that the two cats could co-exist and to see whether the new cat would be a compatible companion for our household. This is a good way to go about getting a pet. If the family can be flexible about a trial arrangement, it can save pets from going to unwanted homes.

In the end, we have two cats. One gives us lots of love and cuddle. The other gives us lots of love and likes to play with teeth and claws. They both have their flaws, but they are part of the family and much loved.

It is important to remember when considering what pet or cat to get that they do have expenses. Our cats have been to the vets for illnesses, accidents, check-ups, and shot updates. One of our cats has also been to the cattery while were away for extended periods of time and that adds up too with personal finances. Yet, the company is worth cost.

Also, when buying a cat, researching the breed can be very important. Some breed cats have the tendency to have certain personality types. For example, the Ragdoll and the Abyssinian are two great breeds to consider (see this site for more info: http://www.petmedsonline.org/top-10-friendliest-cats.html). Remember—breed cats can cost more, but have personalities that can be more predictable, whereas with moggies you have to take your chances but will pay less.

Whatever pet or cat you decide to get, just remember to get one that suits your personality and family situation. If you are quiet and calm then get a cat that seems to match that. If you have children, be aware of cats that are overly aggressive or unfriendly, but also offer a cat a place to hide when even the most patient cat needs to run away for rest!